The way you feel

People often face situations when they have to make a choice, and it's pretty hard to be responsible for yourself and your life, that's why much people don't like dealing with it. So what's the problem?

We often blame others for our bad luck, failures and mistakes...If somebody asks you: 'Why are you so sad? What happened?', you will explain that everybody and everything is to blame, but not you. You'll shift the blame on the world and the circumstances and frankly feel happy about it inside. The thing is we always need a 'villain' in our life, and if we don't have it... we just create it ourselves.

If you've read "Haunted" by Palahniuk, you can remember the way the characters tortured themselves: they cut their fingers and nostrils, secretly spoilt their food, wrecked the locks in order to stay in the ominous house longer. And, surely, they had their own villains which were the means to hide hostages' dredful actions.

It's unknown why, but we can find pleasure in pain and misfortune, and just when we feel that it's the edge of the world we can create masterpieces and find out who we really are.